Friday, June 1, 2012

Blog Slacker...

So, we can all come to the same conclusion...that is I seriously SUCK at blogging! I always have such good intentions to blog, and one would think I'd have all kinds of time to do it working straight nights and all, but here we are almost 3 months since my last post and I'm finally posting again. I really do want to be better about keep my blog and you all updated.

I guess one thing I'm learning is that the older Ryder gets the less time I have to do anything for me. For example: Massages - I used to get monthly massages on my days off work and now the only time I manage to get a massage is after a night shift when I should be sleeping. Another example: Pedicures - My feet used to look amazing. I used to treat myself to monthly pedicures. I have had 2 since Ryder came into this world. And another example: Exercise - Okay, I'll admit I've never been a gym rat but I did manage to get there on a semi-regular basis pre-motherhood. Now the only time I workout is at night after Ryder has gone to bed. Thank God for Jillian Michaels workout DVDs!

Now, don't get me wrong. I'm not upset or resentful towards Ryder or anything like that. These changes are welcome changes. I would way rather be a mommy than have a back that doesn't hurt, pretty toes, or a banging body. Life didn't matter until that little guy came into our life on May 22, 2011. He is truly my reason for being and my reason for waking up each and every morning. I thank God for Ryder and feel truly blessed to be taking this journey through motherhood with him.

Mommy's big boy!

Can you believe my little guy is ONE already?!?! Coming soon: a post detailing Ryder's 1st birthday party. But first I'll be doing a general update on what's new in ours' and his life. Stay tuned!

Sunday, March 11, 2012

Catching up...Weeks 7, 8, 9, & 10

So, where did I leave off?...I know that at the end of each blog entry I say I will be better about updating and blogging more frequently, but obviously that isn't working. So, here we go with weeks 7-10 of my 52 week blog for 2012. We're going to start with Valentine's Day...

Valentine's Day 2012 was VERY low-key this year. Jason and I decided to skip the gifts this year, so to celebrate I made him one of his very favorite meals - complete with homemade cheesecake - and we enjoyed a nice dinner together after putting Ryder to bed that night. I do have to say that having my little Valentine made the day much more enjoyable than previous Valentine's Days have been.
My little "ladies man"; he's the best Valentine a girl could ask for!  

Valentine's Day is about the only eventful thing that happened during week 7. I had to work the weekend of February 17-19 which gave daddy and Ryder lots of bonding time. I think Jason was ready for the start of another work week by the time Monday rolled around!
Grocery shopping with mom!
Weeks 8 and 9 were equally uneventful with the most exciting thing being Jason's wisdom teeth removal and Ryder's 9 month check-up. And I almost forgot...Jason built the washer/dryer stand that I found on Pinterest. It turned out so good!!! Thanks for building it, honey!
Pinterest inspired...
 Our little guy is weighing in at 21 pounds 4 ounces (I don't remember how tall he was...). Dr. Jacobson said that Ryder is right on track for where he should be growth wise and is ahead of the game as far as his development goes. Hopefully we'll stay out of the dr's office until our planned appointment scheduled in May!
Look who's 9 months old - Ryder's first experience eating an Oreo.
Week 9 also brought the start of a new month...Can you believe it's March already! Lyndie and Jordan came down to visit us during the weekend of March 2-4 and it was very nice to spend some time with them. Ryder LOVES Jordan.
Hanging out with Lyndie and Jordan
Week 10 is coming to an end as we speak. I'm working the weekend again, so Jason is busy chasing Ryder around the house. Our little guy as finally mastered crawling and as you can imagine is getting into EVERYTHING!
Is this right, mom?
Getting so big!
As I look towards the upcoming weeks I see many weeks full of nothing but work and cuddle time with Ryder Roo. My parents are planning to come visit this coming weekend, so it will be nice to spend some time with them. Other than that it's looking like lots of boring days ahead, and in our life boring is good!

Much Love - Danielle

Sunday, February 19, 2012

Weeks #5 & #6, a LOT late this time...

My goodness am I far behind! It has been a little hectic around our house the last 2 weeks. In my last entry I mentioned that Ryder had a stomach bug all weekend that kept me home from work...it took him a few days to get over the stomach bug, and he was just starting to feel better when he came down with yet another illness...

When we put Ryder to bed on Thursday night (2/3) we noticed that he had very mild cold symptoms, so we turned on his humidifier and applied some baby Vick's to his chest and back. When he woke up at 2:00 for his bottle I quickly noticed that his "cold" symptoms were much worse; his lungs were wheezy and coarse sounding (mommy got out her handy, dandy stethoscope) and he was breathing very labored at a rate of about 80 breaths per minute. I quickly gave my little man a nebulizer treatment, which we had on hand from the fall when he had RSV, and waited for his breathing to improve. Normally the nebulizers work almost instantly, but this time I noticed NO difference at all. I woke up Jason and told him that I was really worried and thought we should take him in, so off to the ER we went.

When we got to the ER the nurses took one look at Ryder and brought us immediately back to one of the critical care rooms...now mommy was starting to get scared...After being quickly assessed by the doctor it was determined that Ryder had RSV (http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/respiratory-syncytial-virus/DS00414)...again...great! The nurse in the ER gave Ryder a different kind of nebulizer, and his breathing started to improve slightly, but it was still worrisome and I was concerned that we were dealing with something worse than just RSV. The Dr. ordered a chest x-ray and told us that they would be sending us home and that we should just continue with the nebulizer treatments and plan for Ryder to get worse before he got better. Having heard this speech before with our first round of RSV, I wasn't very excited for the days to come. I convinced the Dr. to keep us at the ER until Ryder's chest x-ray came back and thankfully I did because his x-ray showed bilateral pulmonary infiltrates, a.k.a. pneumonia.

I have never, in my life, been so happy to hear the word pneumonia come out of a Dr's mouth! This meant that my little Ryder Roo would get put on antibiotics. So instead of just getting sent home to "watch" him, we would actually be doing something to treat him. The nurse gave Ryder his first dose of antibiotic before we left the ER that night, and we headed home with strict instructions to bring him back if he got any worse.

Sharing chew toys with his puppy...
I don't have any pictures of Ryder when he was sick, so you'll have to settle for this picture of my cute little guy taken on 2/8 when he was starting to feel better (finally)...
To say that the next few days were rough would be an understatement...Our usually happy and content little guy was super fussy, clingy, and whiny for the next 3-4 days. I wanted so badly to make him feel better. Why couldn't I have pneumonia instead of him? Seeing your child sick is not a lot of fun. It made me feel so helpless. And it didn't help that he HATED the antibiotic which made it a struggle with each and every dose (for the entire 10 days), or that he HATES getting the boogers sucked out of his nose. Holding your 8 1/2 month old down while you force-feed them medication and use the bulb-syringe on their nose does not make you feel like a very good or nice person. Deep down you know that you are doing it because it's what best for them, but in that moment you feel awful. Ryder and I both did a lot of crying that week!

On Monday (2/6) we had a follow-up appointment with our primary Dr. Ryder's lungs still sounded very wheezy and coarse, but Dr. Jacobson said to just continue what we were doing and that he expected Ryder would be better in about a week. My other major concern at this point was that based on the Ryder's weight at our appointment; he had only gained 3 ounces in the past 3 months. I was expecting that he wouldn't have gained a ton of weight since he hadn't really been eating for the past week and a half, but I wasn't expecting his weight gain to be so small. Dr. Jacobson assured me that his appetite would eventually come back and to continue offering him food as normal but to not be discouraged if he continued to want nothing to do with food. (Dr. Jacobson ended up being exactly correct, because that following Monday (2/13) we had our happy, smiley baby back, and he's been eating like a little piglet ever since!)
You would never guess he was sick...

Still into EVERYTHING despite being a sick little boy...
 To add to the fun in our family that week, Jason went to the dentist on Friday (2/3) for a toothache and found out he has to have his wisdom teeth removed. He was also started on antibiotics and an appointment has been made for February 28th to have the teeth extracted. Let's hope we don't have any more medical/dental issues for a good, long while!

We did have some fun during week #6 (much needed). That weekend we headed out to Tracy, MN to spend some time with our dear friends Drew and Tori Hesse and their 6 1/2 month old Linkin. It was great to see them and it's always fun to see how Ryder and Linkin interact with one another. I even left Ryder with a babysitter (Drew's mom, Deb) for the first time that Saturday night so we could go out to dinner with no babies. It was a lot of fun and the food was great, but I missed my little guy like crazy and couldn't get back to him soon enough! **I will be sure to add pictures of the boys together as soon as I'm able**

The hubs and I at dinner...
Tori and her brother, Treig
Jason and Drew think they are SO funny...
On our way back from visiting the Hesse family we got to spend some time with my parents and with my in-laws before heading back home to Rochester on Sunday evening. It's always so nice to see and spend time with our families, and I love watching Ryder with his grandparents.

Well, if you've made it to the end of this entry, congratulations! I think that pretty much sums up weeks 5 and 6 of 2012. I plan to blog again tomorrow night about week 7, so stay tuned for that entry as well as for some new photos.